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How Do I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back

Three Answers To A Tough Question

I have to admit, when my boyfriend of several years decided he needed a
break from our relationship, just about all I could think of was “How do
I get my ex boyfriend back now?”

I was as stressed out as any other woman would be in that situation, but
when I really sat down to think about it, I saw there were basically three
different answers to the old question of “How do I get my ex boyfriend back?” I’ve listed them all for you here.

Option #1: Go to him

If you’ve just broken up, this is probably the method your heart’s
telling you to do, screaming for you to use. You want to drive down to
his house with French maid’s outfit and a bottle of massage oil and
apologize, beg, and bat your eyelashes until he forgives you.

Unfortunately, next to actually running over his dog, this is probably the
very best way to make sure the break up is final. It makes you look
emotionally unstable and like someone who can’t really handle life on
their own.

Sometimes those tearful, lovelorn pleas work on us gals, but they usually
have the opposite effect on men, who aren’t as comfortable with open
displays of emotion as we are. For this reason, even a little thing like
sending a mushy love letter is just a bad idea. That’s why I decided
this wasn’t the answer to the question of how do I get my ex boyfriend back.

Option #2: Let him come to you!

No! I don’t mean sitting by the phone all night praying for him to call.
I mean going about your life as if you’d never met Mr.
what’s-his-name, only stopping to let any mutual friend of yours know
that you’re still single and theoretically willing to speak to your ex.

If you honestly think your guy will soon come to realize what a mistake it
was to let you go (eg. he’s done this before), you’re probably safe
with this route. Otherwise, though, it’s fairly risky.

You’re counting on the fact that he’s still thinking about you when in
fact he could be off on Caribbean cruise thinking about anything but his
ex girlfriend.

Option #3: Work through friends!

Recruiting mutual friends to help in reuniting you and your guy is not
only effective, it’s also a perfectly respectable, unlike the French
maid outfit thing. The reason this works is because his friends will be
able to frame your outpouring of longing in the way your guy can relate to
and, more importantly, that doesn’t freak him out.

The trick here is to choose one and only one of his friends to help you
out. Don’t start calling everyone whose number you have in hopes of
overwhelming him with attacks from all sides.

You’ll both dilute the effect and make yourself look desperate. Just
pick one friend and ask if they’d been willing to convey a message to
your ex. If they are, be as open an honest as you can be about what
happened and how you’re feeling.

I can tell you, sitting home wondering “How do I get my ex boyfriend back?” won’t do you much good. Ultimately, you have the best chance of
winning him back by enlisting a friend of his for help. But, you can
improve on the options above by seeking the advice of a professional
relationship therapist.

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